By Kenneth Stepp
There are certain songs that both move me and remind me of someone. You Will Be Found, by Pasek and Paul, is such a song. This song has the words I’d say to my friend, Lori, if I was eloquent enough.
A little less than two years ago, I almost moved back to my home state of Kentucky, I was beaten, hurt, damaged more than I could take, and had about given up on life altogether. I was just a week away from that move. Months earlier I met a girl online, on a dating site. Her name was Lori. She remembered I use to be an investigator, and was about to rent her master bedroom out to a guy that in her words, gave her the creeps. I recalled that she lived in the area I had business in and liked. On a whim, I wrote, just rent it to me. She did. That day changed my life forever.
I really did not know her, she and I didn’t speak again. As I moved my things in, I knew she was guarded and had, in her past, been hurt badly. Some damage can be seen on the outside. Hers was this kind of damage. The next day, I was in the den working from my laptop, she text me… I’ll never forget her words. “There are Girl Scout cookies on the microwave stand, you may have two of them if you like. There it was. She had been taken advantage of before. My goal from that day forward was to show her what a real friend looked like. We both needed one.
What evolved over time was the closest friendship I’ve ever had. She’s family now, even to my family. We travel together, go on adventures, and do life together every day. Investing in one another more as we go. We even have a small business together. She is the sister I never had. I can tell her anything without being judged and she can do the same with me. The twist of fate happened in a moment. I often wonder what my life would have been like had I not received that text from a stranger that day. We saved one another and we both have more love in our lives.
My roommate and friend, faces giants every day, with bravery I have never witnessed before. She cares about me, who I date, what is happening in my life, and if I’ve eaten or not. We make sure we are both ok, no matter what is going on in our own lives. Our friendship is both simple and elegant at the same time. I heard this song and wanted her to hear it to. From me to you, you will be found sweetie…
Find someone like I have, a person that will stand by you through anything, as I would her. Everyone is looking for a romantic partner, I found a friend. A real one.
Please click on the link below and feel this beautiful song.
Have you ever felt like nobody was there?
Have you ever felt forgotten in the middle of nowhere?
Have you ever felt like you could disappear?
Like you could fall, and no one would hear?
Well, let that lonely feeling wash away
Maybe there’s a reason to believe you’ll be okay
‘Cause when you don’t feel strong enough to stand
You can reach, reach out your hand
And oh, someone will come running
And I know, they’ll take you home
Even when the dark comes crashing through
When you need a friend to carry you
And when you’re broken on the ground
You will be found
So let the sun come streaming in
‘Cause you’ll reach up and you’ll rise again
Lift your head and look around
You will be found
You will be found
You will be found
You will be found
You will be found
Even when the dark comes crashing through
When you need a friend to carry you
When you’re broken on the ground
You will be found
So let the sun come streaming in
‘Cause you’ll reach up and you’ll rise again
If you only look around
You will be found (You will be found)
You will be found (You will be found)
You will be found
Out of the shadows
The morning is breaking
And all is new, all is new
It’s filling up the empty
And suddenly I see that
All is new, all is new
You are not alone
You are not alone
You are not alone
You are not alone
You are not alone (You are not alone)
You are not alone (You are not alone)
You are not
You are not alone (You are not alone)
Even when the dark comes crashin’ through
When you need someone to carry you
When you’re broken on the ground
You will be found
So when the sun comes streaming in
‘Cause you’ll reach up and you’ll rise again
If you only look around
You will be found
Even when the dark comes crashin’ through
You will be found
When you need someone to carry you
You will be found
You will be found
You will be found
Just endearing, lovely and sincere!
The song made me write this. It’s beautiful.